Friday, November 14, 2014

Family friendly activity in Las Vegas

Last weekend (November 8 and 9, 2014 weekend), me and Coney attended my College's Alumni Reunion: Saint Louis University Alumni Grand Reunion 2014 at Harrah's Casino in Las Vegas. The reunion itself was well worth the trip to reconnect with fellow Louisians.

I decided to bring my kids Trevor and Kristen to Las Vegas the last minute prior to the trip.

To make it a worthwhile trip for the kids, I decided to bring them to a place that's interesting, at least to a kid's perspective. But, to find a family / kid friendly activity along the Strip is not exactly easy. Luckily I brought a Laptop and the Hotel had free Wi-Fi to hop on the Internet and do a Google search on family friendly activity Las Vegas.

I found this:
CSI: The Experience at MGM Grand Casino along the Strip.

Mention at the Ticket counter "I want a two-for-the-price-of-one ticket deal". Because if you don't, you won't get the buy-one-take-one Ticket price. I got a Ticket for each of us, and off we went to experience the show.

CSI Interactive show Las Vegas Tickets

Trevor has a following and watched the CSI the TV show so I figured this would be interesting for the two. Kristen was scared at first but turned out enjoyed the investigative scene peering through microscope, interacting with videos on how to sift through evidences. Hope this would stimulate in them, a love for the sciences.

After experiencing the interactive show, the two kids expressed pleasure and thanks for bringing them to the show.

CSI Experience show Las Vegas

So on your next trip the Las Vegas, check out CSI, The Experience show at MGM Grand.

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Double Peak, San Marcos hike with Kuya Raul

Last Saturday, September 13th, me and Kuya Raul took a hike to Double Peak Park San Diego.

We started the hike at 7:30 AM. By the time hike was over Sun was already much up, and the heat was in the mid 80's on a mid September day in San Diego.

The heat combined with with a steep grade hiking trail, makes for a sweaty kind of workout.

We had to make multiple break from the hike as it it really demands a lot cardiovascular wise.

Let's do another trail again sometime kuya Raul.

Click on the image below for our pictures.

20140913_100740 - Julius

Monday, August 25, 2014

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Poway Creekside West Hike

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Monday, August 18, 2014

Palomar Observatory Trail Hike

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Saturday, August 16, 2014

Claremont Wilderness Hike

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Blue Sky Reserve - Ramona Lake Hike

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Friday, August 15, 2014

Justin goes to College ...

August 11, 2014

Justin and I made the long trip using a Tacoma Truck to Albuquerque New Mexico , last August 11, 2014. Google Maps indicated that it was an eleven hour drive, but we're humans, we have to take pit stops , take bathroom breaks, or buy food along the way thus making it more like a twelve or thirteen hour trip.

Passing through three States: California (San Diego and Salton Sea Southern deserts), Arizona, and into New Mexico, I found the view along the way to be breathtaking. The hue and color of enamel brown of the Arizona deserts, the adobe red stiff cliffs and gorges while entering New Mexico is sure is spectacular, the steep climbs on Mountains along the way made a nice visit to Nature and a soothing welcome to an otherwise boring drive.

Justin and I took turns driving, but I couldn't sleep while he was driving. We didn't use a GPS device rather relied on a printout of a Google Maps Directions, and the car's Odometer to figure our way through three States.

When we reached Albuquerque New Mexico, we checked into one of those Extended Stay Hotels which is equipped with a Stove, Microwave, a kitchen sink along with the usual amenities of a Hotel room. I liked the Kitchen amenities because it allowed us to warm food, cook meals for Dinner and Breakfast.

Originally, I planned on letting Justin fly into Albuquerque and let him figure his way around, or arrange for security of his belongings. I'm glad I listened to Gloria and decided to take some vacation off from work and do the long-drive trip instead and assist him with his College Orientation days. It relieved Justin of the burden of: arranging Hotel accommodations; of moving from Point A to Point B; preparing and cooking warm food; and allow him to concentrate on the two day College Orientation event itself.

It is the first time that Justin left home at age 18 and the change is somewhat stressing for him.He had to say goodbye to friends and family back home in San Diego, California, and adjust to a new environment, to a new life. I assured him that years of training with the AVID Program prepared him for this very exact moment, of life in College and everything will go well. He would have to learn life being independent from here on. But I know Justin's capabilities, his determination to finish College, and his can-do attitude. This boy has grown from the innocent inquisitive young boy to a grown up, determined and matured young man.

Someday, he dreams of becoming a U.S. Army Nurse, so he's majoring in Bachelor of Science in Nursing and also joining the U.S. Army Reserves' Officers Training Corps.

Came Tuesday, August 12 early evening, I had Justin Drive me to Albuquerque Airport. He was still teary eyed and can't believe he was on his own from there on. I gave him a big hug, assured him that everything was going to work out just fine. I then caught a flight back to San Diego.

Good Luck my son, be strong, do good in school, study hard and earn good grades, follow your dreams of becoming a U.S. Army Nurse Officer someday.

We all love you.

A pose with Justin at University of New Mexico's Center, Duck Pond area.

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Coney, welcome to America, to the American Dream

I picked Coney from Los Angeles International Airport today July 23, 2014
from a 18 hour Manila-to-Southern-California trip.

Today marks a transition in both our lives. For me its the end of living alone for seven years while raising three kids: Justin, Trevor and Kristen. It marks a change from being independent and into a married life. I feel excited about this change, and inside me, I feel the urge to scream "Its about time! Heck Yeah!".

Picking up Coney from Los Angeles International Airport

For Coney, it marks the day from being single and no kids to beig married and embracing my three kids. I'm not a mind reader but I wonder what's in Coney's mind and her concept about The American Dream. Is embracing my kids, part of that American Dream? My question to the reader is, what does the phrase "The American Dream" mean to you?

I learned a lot of experiences about living independently that I wouldn't otherwise came across had I not got divorced. What would those be you might ask.

Stopping by a 24 Hr Diner for a Burger. She got hungry after a long journey and found Airline food to be horrible.

First that comes to mind is my Cooking skill. Back in my previous married life,I was content of cooking the occasional Pork or Chicken Barbecue or a killer Pancake or French Toast breakfast with all its accompaniments. Living independently and having three mouths changed all that. Feeding three kids under my own roof challenged me to come up with cooking Filipino, Asian, American, Mexican, you name it- dishes, in the most authentic and fastest way of cooking it. Imagine coming home from work on a weekday at 6 PM and still having to don a Kitchen Apron and cook up Dinner that will be ready by 7:30 PM - 8 PM.

I have my collection of cooking cheat sheet videos in the form of downloaded YouTube Cooking videos. For the life of me, I easily forget cooking ingredients , procedures and techniques. A quick view of a cooking video changes all that. All my Cookbook collections just gather dust on my bookshelf now. They've become obsolete in this age of instantaneous videos. My favorite cooking video that I've used on a daily basis over the years is Tony's YouTube Cooking videos also known as Foodtrip28's cooking videos. Toney, sulit dyay inaramid mo nga cooking videos lakay.

There's lots more and other instances: Trying to juggle a lot of things: Running a household; Getting the kids to help clean the house / kitchen; Balancing the checkbook; keeping up with Training/skills to be on top of my Information Technology career; helping my three kids with schoolwork; on and on.

It also marks an end to ten months of waiting, of a long distance love relationship. We used all possible Internet technologies on the books: SMS Text Messaging, Skpe Webcam chats, Yahoo Messenger chats, Facebook wall messages. We still used the good old pen, paper, greeting card and stamps, but those were used on special occasions only.

My feeling is this: it was nice being independent and single for a while, but I feel that life has to move on. We are all humans and deserve to love and be loved. I speak for myself though. I know a lot of people who are single and live a perfectly happy and content life.

I still have my three kids and I love them so much. And now I have Coney in my life, and Coney has me, my love and my commitment of love to her in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow till death do us part. This is one of the happiest moments in my life - with Coney into our lives. And for this, I praise the Lord, for His goodness to me, to us.

So, to mark the event I'm switching my Facebook status from "In a Relationship" to "Married".

Monday, July 07, 2014

Justin finishes High School, and KC Elementary School

I haven't made a Blog entry about my son and daughter. Better late than never, I guess.

Justin finished High School at Mount Carmel High School last June 12, 2014. Kristen had her promotion from Elementary School last June 11, 2014 from Rolling Hills Elementary School.

Time really flies that Justin and Kristen finished their respective grades.

God job my kids, carry on with pursuing your education.

Saint Louis University Alumni proposed website

So yesterday, I got a green light from fellow Louisian Henry Fine and Team to go ahead develop the Saint Louis University Alumni International website. I got the domain name established.

When I say Saint Louis University, its not the Saint Louis University at Saint Louis Missouri or Madrid Spain, rather the Saint Louis University at Baguio City Philippines, hence the word "International" in the domain name.

I'm pretty excited to be a part of this effort. I haven't been perfect in executing previous projects but I've learned my lessons from those experiences. I'll execute this Project in a more elegant and professional fashion.

Saturday, July 05, 2014

CR-1 Visa Case Interview Experience of Coney at U.S. Embassy Manila Philippines

My wife who lives in Caloocan City Metro Manila left at 4:30 AM and carried along this two inch three ring binder full of documents and pictures.

She  took the Light Rail Transit to commute to  the US Embassy at Roxas Boulevard, Manila and arrived at the US Embassy around 5:10 AM. Upon arriving, she found the queue of people intending to enter the US Embassy to be long.

The U.S. Embassy rent-a-cop opened the gate for Applicants at 6:00 AM. Upon checking the Appointment Letter, the guard issued a Form document which will be filled out by Applicant and returned at a window counter at a later time.

The queue for Tourist, working visa, and Immigrant visa applications were separate.

The number was called out four times at four different counters. The manner in which the number was called out was not in sequence rather in a random fashion.

At around 6:45 AM, a clerk called my wife to the first Counter and took some information regarding our petition case. The Clerk checked our Appointment Letter, Petition Case; verified that the Appointment Letter had a stamp from St. Luke's Clinic signifying that a Physical/Medical exam was performed; fingerprint card; and checked my wife's Philippines Passport . She was issued a number and was instructed to take a seat.

Some of the Applicant who queued early at the Embassy were not finished with their Interview when my wife left the US Embassy. A piece of advise is, make sure the Applicant eats a packed breakfast, something for breakfast prior to entering the US Embassy.

At the second window, a Filipina clerk interviewed my wife in Tagalog about our petition case and details of our relationship, marriage.

At the third window, interview was conducted by a young American lady Consul. Interview questions ranged from: What is the profession of your husband? What is the Profession of my wife. My profession is an Engineer. My wife's profession is a Registered Nurse. The Consul's remark is, there is so much demand for Registered Nurses in the U.S. , your husband probably will stop working when my wife is fully employed. My personal response to that is, not in California with the high cost of living in this State, gotta have a two income family to make ends meet. She was asked whether my wife intends to work in the United States to which she replied yes.

Other questions were, details about us both such as our birthday and age. Question such as: why was the wedding conducted in Hong Kong, who attended our Wedding ceremony. At that point , the Consul asked for a picture evidence of the wedding event specifically a group picture showing witnesses i.e. relatives attending the event.

Other questions are whether I had previous marriage to which my wife replied yes. Whether I had children (which is yes) and whether my wife had children as well (which is no). Whether my wife was in a previous marriage prior to our marriage (to which the reply is no). Question was asked about the name of my ex-wife and where is she currently residing.

Question was also asked as to how I became a US Citizen to which her reply is being a child of a U.S. Serviceman in the 50's and 60's, that  I inherited my US Citizenship through my father. Question was asked as to how long I lived in the United States.

Questions was asked as to how and how often did we communicate;  how long have we known each other prior to marriage to which the reply are: through SMS Text messaging, Chat sessions using Yahoo Messenger, Facebook chat, Skype chat with Webcam, frequency is daily if possible, by Letter and greeting cards on special occasions.

The interviewing Consul handed my wife a pamphlet about domestic violence. She was instructed about what to do in case of domestic violence in the home and how to report the case. She was instructed that her status will not be affected if domestic violence happens during the conditional period. My wife replied that the she already attended a Seminar about Domestic Violence conducted by the Commission of Filipinos Overseas, an agency of the Philippine Government.

My wife's impression is that the interviewing Consul felt that her replies to the Interview questions were sincere and the she didn't give her a hard time. She noted that the experience of other applicants were otherwise, that the Consul was skeptical to other applicant's replies and documentation.

At fourth window, my wife was asked to surrender the form that was initially issued to her at the U.S. Embassy entrance. This form asked information as to the address where the Philippine Passport with approved CR-1 visa will be sent to.

She left the US Embassy around 9:30 AM. Since food was not allowed inside the Embassy, she ordered a Burger for brunch at some fast-food joint along the way home, and took the Light Rail Transit going back home.

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Spring has come, My arms await you

Spring has come, and I can't wait to see you.
Can't to be in your Company,
To be in the same roof, to tackle every challenge that come our life

The long Winter has passed,
with it the long wait , the countless online chats and text messages

Summer will be here shortly,
and I'll be waiting at the Airport for your arrival
this will be the sweetest Summer of my life